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Product Reviews

Makeup and Little Girls

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I submit to you that makeup is not for little girls.  Neither is red nail polish, nor short shorts with “volleyball” or whatever written across their backsides.  …in my humble opinion of course.  Having said that, there will come a day when your pre-teen wants to start wearing makeup.  This post will feature a few age appropriate products.  I believe this measured yielding to her powerful girlie will may help you stave off a full on black eye liner driven revolt.

Start her off with skin care.  Mario Badescu has a line of cleansers, toners, treatments and moisturizers that are plant based, effective, and best of all inexpensive.  Sit with your daughter and read through the product descriptions online, the two of you can make an informed purchase together based on her needs.  Having your little princess begin a skin care regimen now sets up a great life long habit and will help her avoid problems in the future.  In addition, she’ll feel a bit more “grown up”, which is really what all this is about, isn’t it?

When it comes to actual makeup, I’d make the trip to the cosmetics department alone.  There are far too many bad decisions to be made and potential arguments just waiting to be had if you make the trip together.  Think of what some of the makeup artists look like and what your daughter may think is “cool”.  Almost certainly NOT age appropriate.  Surprise her with a little goodie bag of your choosing.  If she never saw the sparkly blue eyeshadow and black lipstick, she won’t be disappointed with what you bought.  In fact if she didn’t even know you were going, she’ll be thrilled.

Sephora makes a gloss called “Fresh Gloss”.  It’s perfect for a young girl.  Sheer, shiny, pale and shimmery.  This is a color that will look good on any complexion.


Mascara is honestly something I would try to avoid.  Grown women who can’t help but touch their eyes look like a hot mess at the end of the day.  Imagine your pre-teen, after P.E.  Not exactly the sweet fresh faced look we’re going for here.  Instead, how about a little bit of a soft brown eyeshadow, like Cork from MAC, smudged into her upper lash line?  She’ll be able to see the color and it will enhance her lashes.

I would leave it there on the makeup front.  How much more does she need really?  A couple of other things you might want to throw in her little goodie bag to distract her from the lack of makeup are perfume and nail polish.

My daughter is absolutely in love with Harajuku Lovers Fragrance by Gwen Stefani.  The packaging is fabulous and the fragrances are lovely and varied.

OPI makes a great long wearing nail polish.  For the name alone, Prinesses Rule! is one of my favorite colors for a young girl.

So there you have it!  Put everything in a cute cosmetic bag and hand it over.  She’ll be thrilled and hopefully you’ll have kept her a little girl, for at least a while longer.

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Tips and Techniques

Red Lips

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Red lips are fierce, and we know this.  You are either the sort of woman who wears crimson without a second thought, or the kind of woman who shudders at the thought.  It’s quite cut and dry really.

Well, I am here to tell you that there is a red lip out there for everyone, you just have to do a little sampling.  Get with a salesperson and hit the cosmetic counters.  Be prepared to try on a few shades.

My all time favorite red lip is simply Jungle Red Lipliner Pencil by Nars.  I just draw them on, fill them in and bam!  There’s no stopping me sister.

The best thing about using just a pencil when you’re dealing with a bright or deep color like red, is that you don’t have to worry about it smearing all over your face, or Heaven forbid, creeping it’s way up into fine lines around your mouth.  Also, it lasts.  If your lips are a bit dry use the teeniest amount of lip balm to smooth them out, then apply your pencil.

Remember when working with red, take your  t i m e.  Work in light small strokes around your mouth until you’ve outlined it’s shape, then carefully fill in with liner or lipstick…or both.  If you want to really throw caution to the wind, add a little pop of gloss, clear is fine, to the middle of your top and bottom lip.

Yes it is ok to even out your lips.  No one has perfectly symmetrical lips.  If you like larger lips and one side of your bottom lip drops a bit lower than the other, bring the other side down.  If one side of your top lip is larger than the other make ’em match girl.  The key here is subtlety.  Don’t draw a whole new mouth.  Do even things out.

Lastly, in nearly every case, a strong mouth means you need to ease up on the eyes.  Think about a soft cat eye, or just black mascara. Now hold your head high, smile and wait for the comments.  They usually go something like this, “Oh, I could never wear that color”, or “I’m just not brave enough to wear a red lip.”  Guess what?  You are.

oxox

S

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Product Reviews

Curly Mantra: I love my curls, I love my curls…

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Curly hair?  Breathe deeply, in through the nose out through the mouth, and repeat after me.  I love my curls, I love my curls.  I know it can be difficult to deal with, but don’t stress over those tresses.  You just have to understand how to take care of your gorgeous locks.

As if you didn’t already know, curly hair is different from straight hair.  If you look at straight hair under a microscope you’ll see that it’s cylindrical.  A strand of curly hair is flat.  At each point where a strand of curly hair bends, the cuticle of the hair opens somewhat, which is why curly hair generally needs more moisture than straight hair, it loses moisture at each bend.

Because it is different, it needs to be treated differently, for example do NOT rub your hair with a towel when you get out of the shower.  You’re increasing the frizz factor.  Simply press it with your towel to remove excess water.

The following are two different lines specifically created for curly hair, each with very different price points.  I highly recommend them both.

Phytospecific (yes, it’s true, I’m all about the Phyto), is fabulous, plant based, and ultra hydrating.  Unfortunately, as with most fabulous things, the line is a bit pricey.

They have three levels of products, normal to dry, ultra dry, and damaged and brittle, as well as styling aids, leave in conditioners and (dare I mention it), two levels of relaxers, if you must.

If your hair is very fine and curly, Phytospecific might be a little too heavy for you.  Before buying the product, get your next blow out at a salon that uses the products in the back bar (at the sink), and see how well it works for you, or you could simply try to score some samples.

Just as a side note, most of the women featured in Phytospecific marketing materials are black.  That does NOT mean that this is a line exclusively for black women.  What it does mean is that you lovely dark skinned ladies are their target demographic.  The line is simply for all types of curly hair, from a wide curl pattern, to a tight curl pattern, period the end.

Now, let’s talk DevaCurl.  Remember when I said most fabulous things are pricey?  Well, I’m sticking to my guns on that statement, however, DevaCurl is the exception to the rule.

DevaCurl is 100% sulfate free, in fact the shampoos are named No-Poo, and Low-Poo.  That’s not baby talk for some unmentionable bodily function, rather a reference to the fact that the shampoos have either no lather or virtually no lather.  There is no need to completely strip curly hair of it’s own essential oils with harsh chemical lathering agents in order to cleanse, and DevaCurl knows this.  One of my all time favorite products is Mist-er Right, a lavender scented curl refresher, excellent for bringing the shape back to crushed curls in the morning.

DevaCurl has nearly a cult following.  Legend has it that the owner operates a salon in LA catering exclusively to curly haired clients.  If you want to have your hair straightened, they take you to a dark room in the back.  (I just made up that bit about a darkened room, I thought it added a certain je ne sais quoi.)

Meanwhile, regardless of which line you choose, you really should check out the DevaCurl site.  It is possible that Lorraine Massey, co-owner of the line, knows more about maintaining healthy curls than anyone on the planet.

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Tips and Techniques

The Salt Analogy

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I spend a good portion of my life teaching women, and sometimes men, (hello, I am from Miami), how to apply makeup.  As a result, I have come up with what I think is a very helpful analogy.

Most of us, at one time or another have had to cook something.  Those that haven’t, have certainly eaten.  Applying makeup is like adding salt to your food. You add a little salt, then have a taste, a little more, have a taste.  Adding too much salt is disastrous.  The outcome is  terrible and it’s virtually impossible to remove.  You’ve basically got to start all over.

The same principle applies to makeup.  Apply a little, have a look, a little more, have a look.  You can always add more.  Taking off too much, however, is not always an easy task. In a great many, if not most, cases it requires that you start all over.

So there it is my friends, the salt analogy.  Hope you find it useful.

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Product Reviews

Hair Oil

It sounds so old fashioned doesn’t it?  What are we greasers?  Maybe those boys knew something we don’t.

The fact is that hair oil is wonderful for maintaining both the health of your hair and your scalp.  In fact, without a healthy scalp you can kiss healthy hair goodbye.

Here’s the catch, you need to find the right oil for your particular issue and hair type.  These  are a few of my favorites.

Huile D’Ales is a water soluble oil. This is important as you can have your colorist add it to your hair coloring or bleach as it won’t interfere with chemical processes.  It provides protection from the chemicals and supposedly gives you a bit of a treatment at the same time.   I went from Wonder Woman black hair to Marilyn Monroe blonde, and am sure Huile D’ Ales is the only reason I’m not currently bald.

It’s also a great hydrating oil treatment for all hair types. Simply apply it to dry hair and leave it in for as long as you like, as often as you want, then shampoo and condition your hair as you normally would.  The product is light weight, so it won’t weigh down even the finest of hair.

Love, love, love this product.  The fragrance alone is enough reason to fall in love with MORROCANOIL.  I use the smallest amount, about the size of a dime, on the lengths and ends of my hair after I’ve shampooed and conditioned.  The result is beautiful smelling, well conditioned, shiny hair.  Even after a blow dry I use an even tinier amount to further smooth the hair.

If you have very fine hair, you can still use the product, just take baby steps.  Try a drop on damp hair and see where that gets you.

Yes, I’m back to Phyto.  Phytopolleine is an amazing product that I have seen work it’s magic.  It can be used as part of a thinning hair regimen or as a scalp normalizer.  Basically, it stimulates your scalp increasing circulation.  Increased circulation = fertile ground for hair growth.  Phytopolleine also helps regulate sebum.  So, if your scalp is either too oily or too dry, Phytopolleine will help.

I would be remiss not to mention Weleda Rosemary Hair Oil.  Weleda has been at the forefront of the organic, plant based product movement since before most new companies owners were even born.   I have tremendous respect for  Weleda, and have used an array of their products, all to my satisfaction.  Alas, I’ve not used this one.

Rosemary acts as a stimulant, which increases circulation.  We’ve already discussed the importance of that.  In addition, rosemary is both an antibacterial and antiviral agent.  Rosemary Hair Oil also contains Burdock which is known to help the body maintain skin health.

Unfortunately, I can not recommend this product as I haven’t used it, but it sounds pretty good to me.

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Product Reviews, Tips and Techniques

Focus: Dehydrated Skin and Green Eyes

I had the most fabulous client today; a genuinely happy person, and it showed.  She had delicate features and huge deep set green eyes.  Beautiful.

She came in with no makeup, (thank you), just moisturizer.  Even moisturized, her skin appeared very dehydrated.  I pressed a little of Laura Mercier’s Perfecting Water into her skin with a cotton pad and voila!  The improvement was instant.  I really focused on the skincare with her.  There was a redness to her skin that was just a result of being overly dry.  After using serum, day cream, eye serum, and eye cream, the redness was diminished.  This was one application.  Imagine what she’ll look like in a week.  Happily, she bought it all.  I can’t wait to see what she looks like next time I see her.

While skin care is the most important aspect of your beauty routine, in my humble opinion, color is the most fun.  As I mentioned, huge green eyes.

1.  I used a very sheer application of Laura Mercier Metallic Creme Eye Color in Platinum, from brow to lash.  Starting at the brow to get the greatest concentration of pigment there, then pulling it down so it gradually fades toward the lash line, as a result of what’s left on the brush really.

2.  Then I used the same product in Burnished Copper moving in the opposite direction, (in other words, starting tight to the lashes and pulling up, stopping just under the crease, so the color on the brush starts to fade just under the crease).

3.  I used the best tool in the world, my finger, to softly blend where the two colors meet, so as to transition from one color to the other seamlessly.

4.  Next, I used a very small amount of Laura Mercier Sherazade Eye Color (sort of an earthy golden green…I know it sounds scary, but it’s not) in the outer corner of her eyes, imagine a soft sideways “V” shape.

5.  Again with my fingers, I gently patted the Sherazade into place over the creme colors.

6.  Last but not least, I gave her a tight line with Laura’s Black Ebony liner just under the lashes, followed by a coat of mascara.

Gorgeous.

I will recreate the eye and post pictures at a later date. If any of you decide to give the look a shot, I’d LOVE to see your pictures!

Goodnight beautiful creatures!

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